Dating advice after the first date
As guys get more experienced with women, they generally know that their best bet is to assume the woman is interested in them and act accordingly (respectfully, of course).
However, not all guys come from this place of internal validation and they look to the woman for signs to see if she’s attracted.
That’s only possible by starting with the ‘real you.’ Make up your mind, in advance, to have fun. Every time you meet someone new, you’re gaining vital information as to what you want (and don’t want) in a partner. Do not go to a movie theater or a music concert on a first date; save those types of events for a second, third, or fourth date; 5.
If you are actively meeting and dating women, or looking to find someone special, you must get your dating practices down pat.
If you pretty much don’t enjoy anything – you don’t really like your friends anymore, you don’t like your job, you don’t like your lifestyle, etc.
– then he is definitely going to avoid dating you because he doesn’t want to be the guy who has to perk you up.
But if you communicate to him that a relationship with him is going to be some kind of life-preserver or crutch or key to being happy, he will definitely not want to pursue a relationship.
His feeling is that he’s got enough problems of his own to deal with without having to take on someone else’s.