Buddhist views on dating
The Buddhist views on marriage are very liberal: in Buddhism, marriage is regarded entirely as personal and individual concern, and not as a religious duty.
There are no religious laws in Buddhism compelling a person to be married, to remain as a bachelor or to lead a life of total chastity.
Marriage plays a very important part in this strong web of relationships of giving support and protection.
A good marriage should grow and develop gradually from understanding and not impulse, from true loyalty and not just sheer indulgence.
Some of us are tempted to relive every dating mistake we’ve ever made in our mind, or worse, pay bitterness from a former relationship forward to the next people we meet. Sure, at first, it feels like your love is unshakeable and everlasting. I’m not saying that people DESERVE to have bad dates, but there are folks out there entertaining the mistaken idea that the world owes them a boy- or girlfriend. If you treat people like they are out for themselves and will betray you at the first available opportunity…you will probably find what you are looking for.
Although Buddhist monks do not solemnize a marriage ceremony, they do perform religious services in order to bless the couples.
The institution of marriage provides a fine basis for the development of culture, a delightful association of two individuals to be nurtured, and to be free from loneliness, deprivation and fear.
In marriage, each partner develops a complementary role, giving strength and moral courage to one another, each manifesting a supportive and appreciative recognition of the other's skills.
Separation or divorce is not prohibited in Buddhism though the necessity would scarcely arise if the Buddha's injunctions were strictly followed.
Men and women must have the liberty to separate if they really cannot agree with each other.